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Saturday, December 30, 2006
Waiting for the perfect man
"True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"
Unluckly i didn't find a similar picture for men :( But hey.... ofcourse it's for both men and women who are in the age of marriage and search for integrity, believing that they'll find all the attributes and peculiarities they dream of in their future husband/wife. They search and search for their knight dream, and time pass by without trying to abandon any of their stipulations. Sure i'm not saying that you should go and marry any one and that's all..Ofcourse NO. All i wanna say that we'll never find the perfect ones, so we've to be a little bit flexible.
"True love does not come by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"
Labels: Salma's thoughts, The perfect person, True love
posted by Salma at 4:23 PM
10 Comments:
1st happy eid
2nd nice words but some people waiting only for 1st one will come
Dr.Bahaa: Happy Eid to you too.
And yeah some people are waiting only for the first one,but on the other hand others reject many proposals coz of illogical,trivial reasons concentrating more on superficialities and the outer appearance and neglecting the character, morals,the soul and religion.
Guess who is back! Hey salma!
I agree with your post. We need to be flexible and also we need to exercise patience
K
Hey Mohamed "The K-man"
WeLcOmE BaCk Mohamed!!
Hope you enjoyed your trip here in Egypt and spent fabulous dayz :)
We missed your comments :p
Yeah you're 100% correct,Patience is indeed of great importance, we've to slow down, not rush and our (naseeb) destiny will come sooner or later.
Peace
thanks for dropping by salma, I really appreciate your comments.
As for your post I'm going to have to agree with you as well. There are compromises all the time that one has to make, choosing a soul mate is no different. Good luck in your search :)
Well, the pic hit home with me actually...
How can a girl with all of the pride admit she is waiting?! she has nothing but to wait! Girls get their pride spilled on the floor once they write about the awaited soul mate, that's the time when they remain helpless, never able to do everything and save the day, it's another one's role... they all dream of the shared nest... even those who're sinking in pride...
I really liked the post...
Omar:
Glad you liked my comments,and welcome to my blog :). As for searching..Well,i'm not searching Omar.All what fill my mind now are my studies and how to reach my educational goal.
Your duaa' for me :)
Amr:
Glad you liked the post so much :)
Wanna declare something:
As there're alot of trivial,empty minded girlz, there're alot of trivial empty minded guyz as well, and actually what made me write this post is that i know some relatives (Men) who are now more than 35 years and single!They reject 'alot of' proper ones just b'coz they didn't find the one with 'all' the peculiarities they dream of in their coming wife,believing that they'll find all what they dream of.and i think that this post mayn't be applied only on "finding the soul mate" No..i see that it can be applied on another aspects of LIFE.Nothing is perfect except allah.
oh yes Salma, I said the post hit home with me in a different way, but here you add more concepts, as you say no body is perfect, but for sorrow nobody is accepting others' errors... however everyone is affected by human weakness...
anyway, I never met those trivial men so far, just heard of one... but of course they exist... sickness doesn't know a certain gender...
But as for those I liked their writings, I'm telling you "don't deprive us"
Amr: Your comment pleased me so much.Thank you :)
I think any relationship will not continue and succeed unless u really accept and even like his\her imperfections.
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